Your Messy Experts on Divorce

Considering or going through a divorce? Ever wish you had two friends that happened to be Psychologists that you could talk to and they would keep it unflinchingly, real and uncensored? But you also knew they had legitimate expertise, they had been through divorce and they were genuinely informed on what has shown to be helpful?

That’s us. We aren’t for everyone, but we might be for you…

As psychologists we have both sat across from many clients in our careers whose relationships end.   In 2018 and 2019 we both found ourselves on the leading edge of a trend towards increasing divorce rates.

Our marriages failed despite decades of education, training and clinical practice helping others improve their relationships.  Our arsenal of psychological tools and skills weren’t enough to fix what was wrong in the most important relationship we chose for ourselves.

We share our personal experiences with divorce, how we made it through, what we learned and how our professional knowledge and skills as psychologists helped us thrive in our divorced lives. We are here to give you an insider’s look on what it is like to have all this expert knowledge and divorce, but also how we went through it together as besties. Let us help you divorce like a psychologist, the literal experts on relationships.

Join us for our weekly podcast where we share our reflections, engage in discussion and interview colleagues and other experts on divorce.

We are also in process of writing our first book “How to Divorce Like a Psychologist”. Between our busy clinical practices and raising kiddos we hope to one day actually meet one of our deadlines.